Educating our future generation is not just giving children access to knowledge. According to Wikipedia, education is the acquisition of knowledge, skills, values, morals, beliefs, and habits. It is the process of facilitating learning, through our own example. The root of the word education is "educare" from the Latin language, which means ‘to draw forth’. This word is related to other Latin words which collectively mean ‘to lead’. So, just giving instructions to our kids isn’t going to work.
Parents usually “tell” their children – what happened, what caused it to happen, what should have happened instead, how they should feel about it, what they should do about it…The lectures usually go in one ear and out the other. Why do parents “stuff in” and then wonder why children “tune out”?!! The type of discipline we use determines the way our children perceive themselves as well as the outside world. The not-so-good type of discipline may involve methods of control, and angry or violent responses to undesired behavior. Yes! This way gets the desired behavior, but is it stemming from fear? Is it self-driven?
Positive Discipline is a model used in schools and parenting, that focuses on the positive points of behavior and is sustainable in the long run. In contrast to other discipline models that are based on punishment and rewards, Positive Discipline is in favor of encouragement and addresses the basic needs of children to belong and feel significant in socially useful ways. It is a way of teaching and guiding children in a firm, yet kind manner; about what behavior is acceptable.